被点名了                                                                      
                                                                     
规则：击鼓传花游戏，传给谁谁就得接着，否则就得挨罚。请认真对待，不要怕暴露隐
私。下面是我的回答，去掉答案就是留给你们的作业，答完后要发表在你们的页面
上，且要在标题上注明是谁点了你，你答完后加一道题再传给另外6个人，而且要去他（她
）的页面告诉他（她），不可以回点哦，这个游戏要说的是,你将了解你的朋友
更多~~~~                                                                      
                                                                     
01 要传答出去的6个人：tianya, jane, joyee, 大考拉，cici woo, 佳               
                                                                     
02 性别：男                                                                   
                                                                     
03 多大：82生，自己算吧 ，我总算错                                            
                                                                     
04 职业：打工的                                                               
                                                                     
05 兴趣：很多运动，最近对滑雪特感冒。电影，喜欢一个人静静的看电影。 旅游，让我
更丰富。                                                              
06 喜欢的异性类型：善良，相对独立，不能太胖，愿意随我浪迹天涯                 
                                                                     
07 专长：自我调节能力很强，喜欢分析人的心理。                                 
                                                                     
08 有没有什么证书：CET-6？ 考了3次 59 58.5 60.5                               
                                                                     
09 有烦恼的事吗：没烦恼是不可能的.                                            
                                                                     
10 喜欢和讨厌的食物：没什么特别喜欢的,好吃的我都挺喜欢,讨厌吃芹菜,虾皮,紫菜   
                                                                     
11 对你爱的人说一句话：我觉得我已经差不多走出你的阴影了, 谢谢你.              
                                                                     
12 请介绍你要传答出去的6个人:                                                 
                                                                     
tianya：认识了7年多却没见过面的网友, 很珍惜她, HOTMAIL的邮箱当初就是为了和她联
系才申请的                                                            
jane: 移友来的，但是却有一个我最喜欢的英文名, 每句话结束必有"哈"字            
                                                                     
joyee: 难得可以无话不谈的朋友                                                 
                                                                     
大考拉: 疯丫头一个,相处起来特别融洽                                           
                                                                     
cici woo：大学时50%上网的时间和60%的电话都给了她.干吃不胖的主, 祝她新婚愉快   
                                                                     
佳：很飘的一个人,希望她早点找到个能抓住的固定物.                              
                                                                     
13 用一种动物来形容传答给你的人：天鹅                                         
                                                                     
14 用喜欢的角色来比喻传答问题给你的人的角色：小白那里看来的,形容小白的话, <情书
>里的女主角吧,感觉气质,性格都蛮像的                                  
15 用一种食物来形容传问题给你的人：小葱拌豆腐                                 
                                                                     
16 用颜色来形容将接棒的6个人：粉色                                            
                                                                     
17 最让你感动或激动的一件事: 好久没感动和没激动过了                           
                                                                     
18 理想中的爱情：35岁以后的爱情。                                             
                                                                     
19 如果吃好吃的第一个想到谁：当然是我自己。                                   
                                                                     
20 什么时候会想起传问卷给你的人：比较安静的时候。                             
                                                                     
21 最近一次哭是为什么：大三实习那年,被陷害,委屈啊,有生以来最惨的一次。        
                                                                     
22 最让你后悔的一件事：品尝失败太晚了                                         
                                                                     
23 你最重要的东西: 家人,朋友,音乐,电影                                        
                                                                     
24 喜欢什么季节：冬,喜欢鼻毛被瞬间冻住的感觉                                  
                                                                     
25 最喜欢的地方是：家里舒服的床                                               
                                                                     
26 最喜欢听的歌是哪首：an ocean apart 我最喜欢的一部电影的开头曲              
                                                                     
27 最想去的时间空间：想看看我将来结婚的时候新娘是什么样子的                   
                                                                     
28 如果只剩下一天的生命，会做些什么？ 狠狠的拥抱我每个朋友                    
                                                                     
29 如果生命可以重来，你愿意回到过去重新开始吗？ 如果生命可以延长的话,我不介意.
                                                                     
30 没有面包的爱情，你会接受吗?：会，只要她也愿意接受                          
                                                                     
31 如果给你重新选择一次的机会，你想自己变成谁？为什么？ 还是做我自己吧. 小时候
听过一个兔子的寓言故事, 兔子最终的选择也是这样的,嗯嗯, 做个自信的自己.
32 被点的心情如何：很开心,有人记得我。                                        
                                                                     
33 如果你是国家领导人,你会提出什么建议？如果是中国的领导人, 那就让我快点退休
吧。                                                                    
34 如果你有1000万，你怎么用啦？ 给我奶奶的眼睛治好,把我外公的腿治好,全花了都行
                                                                     
35 你最难忘的一个人是谁:2000年11月3号那天, 我最勇敢的一天                     
                                                                     
37 你相信爱情么：爱情的定义是什么呢 ? 有一点相信吧 。                         
                                                                     
38 你爱的人背叛了你，你会怎么对他（她）（两个人正面对着）：忽略她在世界上的存在
                                                                     
39 什么时候会选择放弃：同样的投入有更好的回报率的时候                         
                                                                     
40 什么事最让你称心如意：看到爸妈开心的笑                                     
                                                                     
41 寒假都在干嘛：读书的时候,都在抓紧时间见老同学,没什么时间陪家里人,工作了,没寒
假了,反而陪家里人的时间更多了                                        
42 填了这么多道题，你的最深的感受是什么：有几个问题让我想了好久,比如要点谁的
名。                                                                    
43 有没有挂科，感受是什么：家常便饭,文科真是......没劲。                      
                                                                     
44 对大学生活还满意么：还好吧,玩的很爽,这倒是真的。                           
                                                                     
45 觉得爱情重要还是友情重要：我不确定,啥是爱情啊。                            
                                                                     
46 如果让你把传给X人的数字改了 你改多少：0，和小白一样,                       
                                                                     
47 当你孤单你会想起谁：每次想的人都不一样啊........                           
                                                                     
48 交了几个男朋友/女朋友/男朋友+女朋友：男女朋友的定义很难讲,这个数字很难统计啊
,不过都是女朋友,没男朋友,我性取向很正常.                             
49 会因为一个人终生不嫁或不娶或出家吗：没想过.出家更没想过,那个太自虐了。     
                                                                     
50 会为自己喜欢的人去外地买东西么：会吧                                       
                                                                     
51 能欣然去参加自己喜欢的人和其他人的婚礼嘛：当然会, 会很开心的祝福他们, 幸好没
落在我手上,不然就没那么幸福了.                                       
52 你相信一见钟情吗？我相信任何事,只是概率大小的问题。                        
                                                                     
53 新年愿望是什么？移民顺利。

it's been a long time since last post, and at this moment, i even don't know how to start ...

 

yesterday is march 1st, the same day in 2005 is my first day of my career. if i have to find something given in last 2 years, i think that is i am sophisticated. im not sure it's bad or good. in a way, it's really necessary to get used to office environment. and when communicate with people, it's wise to hide some of ur real feeling to let things go smoothly. from econnomy angle, i made progress ha!

 

at february, the most important event in China must be the spring festival. and that gradually become my only chance to return hometown, sound a little murky. i remembered i was stilll in a train when Chinese new year arrived last year, and after only 5 days, i walked into to the airplane from shenyang to shanghai.

 

this year i have more vacation, and i had 6 days off before spring festival. as planed i went yabuli, heilongjiang province to ski with my uncle's. it was really fantastic, though the slopes were not in good condition, the skiing journey is unforgetable and drew so much of my interest. see the pics on my spaces, it is supposed to be much more, but the god damn chief took my cell phone (nokis n73). it's not fair, he not only took my phone, also a lot of pics and videos in a 2g mini sd card, and also gave me bad mood the whole afternoon.

well, forget about that, just a stuff can make phone call, send sms, play mp3, take photo, record video, surf on internet, logon msn, and be shown off, haha~ i recovered the next morning,  and that's the day i return shanghai.

 

when the plane arrived shanghai, i said loud, it's spring!! so many green planets, and the perfect temperature, just reminded me the trip to hainan island at january. on the way home from airport, i realized it's the city i want to live in. i love my hometown, mostly because she gives me so many sweet memories. and my college life made me get used to a southen city. oh, stop here, stupid thought.

 

 

thank god, after traveling to lots of small cities in henan and anhui province, I can spend my birthday sleep in a 5-star hotel at hefei, the capital of anhui. when I checked in with Wu ( my colleague), I insisted to use my ID card, as planed they asked me whether it was my birthday, I nodded and they promised me a birthday cake at night. bingo!

 

I have already got used to have a dinner with dealer at night during business travels, especially in capital cities. after the routine, I found my lovely chocolate mousse cake lying in a white plate when I walked into my room. I never thought it could be soooooo delicious!!  when I push a small piece of cake into my mouth, I can feel the process of the mousse's melting, and the pure chocolate. u gotta close ur eyes at this moment, and it will be perfect if there were some wine :)  ( not made in China)

 

I also give a half to Wu, but he ate that in one minute. and said, not bad! and then kept on watching movie on HBO...... I regretted to eat too much at supper! haha~~  thank sofitel, it's the best birthday I have had in last 8 years. and I'm also grateful because so many friends wish me happy birthday. and also regards from Mom and uncle, tianya's replay~

 

okay, it's movie time, the name is "fight club" here comes some information from 20th Fox.

 

 

u only get a little hint that Jack may have some light mental disease, because he has insomnia. and then a guy called Tyler Durden come across with Jack during a flight, after which, Jack's life changed weirdly, even we can't understand why that happen, why she say that. at last he realized that there's no Tyler Durden, it's he himself. and finally we can understand the whole film. the tact is just like the film " the sixth sense" and there r two more films of same type, "Memento" and "the Machinist"

 

u see, I can't describe well about the film, but it's a film that really has something. just enjoy it~ 

 

I still remember the first sentence I wrote last time, u can see that I know quite well about myself. can u believe a 4 star hotel without internet servince? I am now in this hotel, haha~~ but it's not that bad, I have enough boring time to type something, to record something.

Shangqiu city, Henan province, is a historied city, and is also the last step of this series of the promotion activity, which  means I can't go back to Shanghai in days. my colleague is playing cards with the local dealer and I prefer to do that on internet, cas I hate gambling. and that's also the reason why I never send SMS to attend some program which may give u a gift by drawing lots, while my company pay me the cell phone fee.

but there cames a couple of good news, I got in tough with tianya again, it's so fantastic to talk with her, but I can feel the distance from her. noone else should be blamed, it's me who stopped writing mail. we came across to know each other in a English solon 6 years ago, but we changed a lot during this long period which we got mature. reading mails from her was once my biggest happiness, and I am now so eager to read her reply.

another good news is also about a friend, lala. we got nothing from each other after she went abroad with her French boy, but I really miss my good buddy. lala have a special temperament somehow like a hamdsome boy, very sporty and not cici at all. well,  I don't know it's propor to write too much about her, so I deleted a lot of words ha ~  what can I say more, she is my best friend in Uni, and wish her and her French boy everything the best. 

the left news is I ate a birthday cake and noodles tonight, haha~~ so happy. though the relationship with the local dearer is more like something about interest, I really appreciate what he did. I don't know why I also feel sad, maybe because I had nothing to do on my birthday in last 5 years. no party, no birthday cake, no prersent. sigh~ Mom wanted to give me watch for birthday present, but I refused. she has payed too much for me, I can feel her care about me and that's enough.

hey~ tell u a secret, recently I feel like sleeping naked, so cool and comfortable, and I needn't to worry about smearing quilt in hotel, haha~

stop here, see u around, and next time I'll introduce a perfect film,

 

midnight  Dec. 17

 

这是一个WOW女玩家写的文章,如果不玩WOW,你可能并不能了解其中的全部意思,但是希望大家能和我一样,体会到一点点人生的味道.

引自http://bbs.ngacn.com/read.php?tid=764766&fpage=1  作者 "暗月红"

职业、男人、钱

一

我说我不干了。

啊，这么爽的职业你不干了？你知道多少贼还在外面排队等进大副本，他们跪下来都找不条一条裤子穿。

那么我让他们。我不干了。不玩贼了。

公元2006年，我觉得，我的人生观发生了变化。我觉得人应该过的简单，简单就是饿了就吃困了就睡觉，简单就是穷了赚钱闲了炒股票，简单就是天是蓝的水是绿的帅哥都是傻的冲他们笑一眼就会跟你走的。

总之，简单就是我没时间也不乐意挖萝卜打绷带采草药冲声望每天找屁股了。当然我当年是战斗贼，但出于对贼这个职业的尊重我尽量选择让自己站在每个目标的屁股后面。

我玩了一个大部分时间只动三个纽的职业，圣印、审判、刷血。但是快捷键太少，我不舍得让当年设置的键盘空着，勉强学了个工程，把各种道具塞满整个角落。

我还是个不够简约的人哪。

只是在我第一次打开团队助手勾出所有小队人员名单我还是活活吓了一跳，我把所有的人员名单移到左边，发现众多的人数盖住了BOSS的脸。我把所有的人员名单移到右边，我觉得我的眼睛长久以后会白多黑少，于是我把经常加的和不经常加的移动到两边，我终于勉强看清楚脚下的路。

如果看不清那个BOSS，你叫我怎么打？

但是牢骚归牢骚，我也只有默默安慰自己，有许多事情，看见的表面未必看见了本质，酒肉穿肠过，我心中自有佛祖和莲花。我街机最擅长打地鼠，遇见恶犬挡路恶少欺人就去发泄，现在年纪大了，觉得万变不理其宗，刷血条也一样。人生就好比转圈，转了一圈总要回来。想来以后遇见与人分开，我是不是可以豁达地说我去去就来？

二、

我不常刷钱。因为我太实际，我经常看见网上说一个G才卖几分钱，我不得不怀疑下自己刷钱的动力。我不买G不卖G，但是我仍忍不住心里的换算。人生最怕的就是算，如果吃饭时候你得数米，把帅时候你得计较对方钱包里的钞票……我觉得你完全有理由一辈子不吃饭不恋爱，你完全有理由要么疯掉要么入党。我说我不算，但一到单独而又纯粹地打钱就马上蹦出了七分钱这样的金子招牌！我既不想疯掉也没资格入党，我决定不刷钱。

我不用买马，我不大喝药，我没血了就往战士身边逃，我逼急了就开无敌撑个12秒。
但是我长到60级的时候形式已经不大好，ZG FX黑龙MM装备要买，MC很快也要买卖……有强人要开BWL的G团。我想不是我不明白，是这个世界变化快，当年开荒到装备全红，现在只需各人数出各人口袋里的小金币。我想要么我自卑一下，喊消费的来的时候我默默不吭气，直到对方绝望了缺治疗才怯生生地密一下。

不过原来治疗装那么便宜……几次G团下来，赚的比花的多。

果然这个世界形势已经变了，如果钱不肯过来，你就可以穿一身奶妈装迎过去。

三

我朋友经常说好男人难找，及格线以上的不是别人的丈夫就是断臂山。我没办法，先把自己的丈夫藏好，然后对她说，要么，你打游戏吧。游戏里都是头脑简单，四肢也未必发达的男人。但是简单有简单的好处，简单才能认定除了自己老婆其他的女人只能看不能睡，何况他们就算激素高了，一场RAID下来也肯定有心无力。打游戏的男人也许很没意思，但起码他们看电脑前大部分时间真在打游戏，而不是一边对着外国大波妹的视频一边打手枪。

他们根本没那个时间。

我不知道她最后有没有打WOW。有时候上班时候做交友活动，都是头疼女的报名多男的报名少，这花花世界霓虹缭绕，竟然现在就不再有人乐意出来看一眼。

我以为男人简单，其实也不简单，他们在小小的十七寸世界里展示他们的狡猾。有开荒不来的，有负分退会的，有后门求组的，有装卡掉线的……往好里说，他们觉得现在很重要，他们认真地运用着一切擦边球获取游戏的利益；只是世间还有白云苍狗，只怕艾泽拉斯会更快。当年为了几件“可以用一辈子的顶级”装备争吵不休的人们，在拆水晶的时候会不会遗憾穿的时间还不够自己从青涩变成熟？

我一个朋友纳闷，为什么有人会对虚拟世界里的物品重视成这样，拿错一件装备可以愤而删号，那万一女人跟别人跑了不是要愤而自杀。

所以他们没有。

说不简单，其实他们也简单。打了那么多年网游，人总会简单。以前我教朋友恋爱，我说你们等着，他们不联系你，你也莫要联系他们。现在我教朋友恋爱，我说你直接把手机给他对他讲，记得打我电话我喜欢听你声音。他打来，就勾引，不打来，就勾引下一个。

该来的总要来，该对眼的总会对眼，没有那么多猜忌多疑七拐八弯，就好比，RAID大门开在那里，紫装掉落摆在那里，动心的人，总得去。挤破了头，他们也会去。黑龙MM那么难看，多少男人过几天不被她烧一次就不舒服啊。

不要怕，不要怕这个是你人生最后一个男人，不要怕这个是你拿的最后一件装备。人生苍凉不过英雄末路，美人迟暮。那么我们又怕什么，本来就不是美人，打游戏又何以出英雄？不如玩过笑过，哭过算过，郁闷过痛快过。只希望人生永远犹如初女叫床，痛并快乐着。

these days I am always thinking when will I stop writting blog. oh~ what an idiot question, I am just starting. but I know I probably can't persist in writing these words for a long time which may only be read by few people. 

 

this is the way I am thinking now, but luckily not always. well. it's really cool to have a method to record oneself. I can smile naturally when I read my diary kept when I was at primary school. so naive and pure, no worries and pressure, just be glad to know this world, to absorb knowledge. if presuming I held a pen again to write down words everyday now, the only same thing will is the bad handwriting.

 

how time flies...  so many sweet memories emerge at this moment, ha~~  I miss the days when I got up at 5 am every day to practise long-distance running for the "Nov. 9th" running competition.  u know? it's so cool to run on the course coved by snow and seeing the meteor slide down the sky. but I don't like the sound made by the foot step in the snow, it made me feel much colder.....    and the days we caught frog, a lot kinds of insect, get some corn, potato, sweet potato and then had a BBQ party.. so nasty, I can't imagin how I ate those insect at that time...  and the days we often fight a water fight at the bus station of my hometown for a whole afternoon, and we called it the WAR III.  ..... and the days we boys fight girls and teachers with snow at winter. u can image how comfortable to be caught and be tumbled by several girls. haha~~ feel nice? yeah, and then lots of snow would be around ur neck and in ur mouth, ears, noses and  stomach... that's it!! snow fight!! thx to those memories, which make me feel very well.

 

anyway, I am now making memory for future, isn't it?  that's right! for the good of the future, enjoy every minutes now!

 

hey~ it's movie time again. u gotta think lord. this time, I'll show u the most romantic movie in the world!!! DANG DANG DANG DANG!!

 

"Ladies and gentlmen! though I am a little nervous I have to announce: the name of the most romantic film in the world is " Before Sunset" congratulations! " 

 

I'm not kidding buddies, the film is so special that at the beginning you may think it's common, but can u imagin that talking between two persons make up 90% time of a film? that's it! and it's the best.... I can't let the contents of the film out, u gotta to watch it urself, but make sure u r calm in advance!  :)

 

 

ps: I still don't know how to let u hear the music "an ocean apart" from this film just by viewing this page, but I got the lyric. enjoy it!

 

 

 

it's Friday today, everybody loves Friday, I can wear casually and relax a little. Friday let me feel very confortable, especially after a 2 days business travel to that kind of city like Yancheng. I spent more then 10 hours sitting in the narrow chair of the bus with my guesture changing every 5 minutes. the people arround even smoke in an air-condition bus and put off their shoes and had their smelly socks exposed!!! so horrible........

 

u may believe that I don't like those guys on the bus. Yes, but that's not the whole story, I don't like myself either. frankly I wanna have my feet naked and  lay down across 4 chairs, but another me tell myself, u can't. well, at that time, I realized how false I am again. for most the of time, I am closed, at least the inner part of me is never open. that's me... seems don't care about everything, not agressive, good temper, and never shout at people. that's fine, but not real. I wanna to present my free will, but afraid of being laughed at.  it's so tired to live behind a mask, but everybody has a mask, the emphasis is how often is proper to  tear it.  sigh~~   life is on, r we enjoying or suffering?

 

 

I can't imagin that I can write a blog at night, when I should be playing WOW with nothing else remembered. so weird, I got tired of WOW just in 2 weeks, and even thought it was a waste of time...  it's much better to watch some films and play some small games with my old friends.

 

I'm not sure whether Tianya will see this blog or not, but I really miss typing English words which I have paused for about 2 years.  life is made of so many circles, and I'm now standing before the starting line of another circle, but the people around me are changed a lot, and I have to commit  me two.  2 weeks age I thought I would be sad to death, if not real die, because break up with her.  but I survived, anyway, I wish I can forget about that as soon as possible..... but, u know, the reason why I did those things recently, including writting blog is breaking up with her. sounds rediculous, anyway, let it be......

 

hey, u really got a luck. I strongly recommend u a film called "12 angry men". a 12 men jury decided to send a 18 years old boy to the electric chair or not. I may can't catch a climax through the whole film, but u just can't stop watching it...  by the way, the film was maded in 1957, haha~ u guess right, a black and white film.  really cool....  I love movies, and if there is any reader or any feedback, I will show u some other wonderful movies. hey, give me a hand ha ~ I should be a film reviewer!

 

it's midnight, I planed to go to bed at half past 11 pm and I really could do that if the idea of donloading MSN messenger never appear in my brain. well, tomorrow I'll take a business trip to Yancheng City, Jiangsu Province. I hate that.

 

whatever u do, I think it's a little difficult to make an end. especially to me. but I am really sleepy, c u later~~